Taking it day by day: Bila

Taking it day by day

Bila

I decided to leave the train and go on a roller-coaster ride. After three months of loops twists turns ups and downs I was thrown out. I was told very kindly to go because I deserved to be on a better roller-coaster, one that had more thrills, more loops and higher highs. The one I was on wasn’t sure if it would hold in the future – not that it was rickety or anything, it was just not sure about what was coming, considering this global warming thing - everything is possible. And so I was given back my ticket. I cried and cried until I started all over again. I truly enjoyed the ride. We did not have lots of change to buy candy floss and soda but the bar of chocolate was enough. I was happy. I cared. I gave. And I really gave. I listened. I was nice. Maybe I was too nice.

In short, I was dumped a week ago and now I am on the bilaz train. Nakeel, I hope you are off my seat and you replenished my goody bag.

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Labels: Dumpville

This entry was posted on Tuesday, April 17, 2007 at 10:25 AM. You can skip to the end and leave a response.

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36 Comments:

At April 17, 2007 11:37 AM, Anonymous said...: Welcome, have a seat, dere, kanyangie aingie!
At April 17, 2007 12:32 PM, bantutu said...: Engineer Welcomes you...Private Cabin...You shul swing by...You can stoke Fluffy and feel all Muchacha...
At April 17, 2007 1:12 PM, KenyanMusings said...: tehehhe, *KM peeps into the train from outside**. Mwehehe, bilas train...I cannot relate.tihiii, haki me I'm not laughing at you...

((((((((Chatterly))))), pole mami. I know those that throw you out with all your viragos halafu, a minute later the handbag follows, then the random lipstick... then sijui your ngotha....auuuiiii.
Not a worry, take your time and enjoy finding your perfection ala!!! Kwanja not sharing a bed....Hmmmmm, I miss that.
Take care mrembo.
At April 17, 2007 3:58 PM, bomseh said...: Welcome back but fare has to be hiked for you to compensate for the temporary seat you take which could be used by long distance more permanent passengers.
At April 17, 2007 5:46 PM, Unyc said...: @Bomseh lol....

@Chatterly Karibu 2 the bilas train. U will be suprised u might enjoy the ride.
At April 17, 2007 6:13 PM, CiikuMrsBabes said...: Oh dear!

E-hug galore!
At April 17, 2007 7:16 PM, Chatterly said...: thanks aegeus :-)
bants, that private cabin mbona iko in bold -u serve nyamchom huko ama?
Kenyanmusings stop laughing bana - thanks for the hug, we had not even reached that stage of "my toothbrush is at his". smh
bomseh be nice-si i thought there was something like miles&more, frequent rider etc?
Unyc - let me wait n see. that train has to be full of entertaining characters :-)
moviebuff - thanx for the hug.
At April 18, 2007 12:41 PM, Klara said...: Woiyeeeee!!
Wellcome, Feel @ home n enjoy da ride!!
At April 18, 2007 8:50 PM, 3N said...: Pole Chatterly, take time and enjoy yourself on the bilas train.
At April 19, 2007 6:24 AM, Juju said...: pole. always found that bilas train allows for reflection. cheers
At April 19, 2007 11:12 AM, Chatterly said...: @Klara, 3n, Majonzi - i plan to enjoy my ride, and do alot of thinking while i am at it!
At April 19, 2007 7:24 PM, Prettylyf said...: *Hugs* now you do know this cloud too shall pass?

Hand on in there :)
At April 19, 2007 8:13 PM, Princess said...: Pole!!!!! I'm still on the damn train but hope springs eternal!!!
At April 20, 2007 7:09 AM, gishungwa said...: {{{{Chatterly}}} pole mamie. You can take my seat am off plus my train miles LOL.
Dont you worry you will be alright.
At April 20, 2007 9:35 AM, Half 'n' half said...: welcome on board......will pay your fare mara moja. Pole mamai

Haaalafu its how so many KBW's are on the bilas train? could it be that we are married to our blogs?
At April 20, 2007 9:48 AM, Chatterly said...: @ prettylyf – thanx for the hug, i know that cloud will pass and the sunny days are just around the corner.
@ princess – I am not losing hope, never will
@ gish – thanx for the seat and the miles, I will be fine.
@ halfnhalf – thanx for footing my fare, bomseh was letaing story za hiking my fare :- ) this bilaz train might be a fun place to be that’s why KBW’s are rarely getting off it. Just maybe.
At April 20, 2007 2:56 PM, Prousette said...: (((Hugs)) na ukae karibu na dirisha you might need to get off the train again.
At April 22, 2007 11:23 PM, Savvy Dreamer said...: think of it this way... life can only get better.
At April 23, 2007 7:57 AM, Unknown said...: Pole for the roller coaster ride cut short but welcome on the train just look at as a shopping trip.
At April 23, 2007 9:08 AM, Chatterly said...: @Prousette-my seat is always by the window, waiting for every chance to jump out :-)
@nahjaj-thats true, life can only get better.
@kirima-some things are never meant to be, thanx for the warm welcome!
At April 23, 2007 2:32 PM, eddiie said...: aaah!..kind of lost what i was to say but let me be back..
At April 24, 2007 11:29 AM, Nakeel said...: ((Chat)) pole mami I guess no one occupied your seat after I left and yes I will be in the next stop dropping some milk chocolates for you ice creams, sweets, cookies and some fresh juice specially squeezed for you for I want when you step out of it you be sure you on the right roller. Take time siz.
At April 24, 2007 8:39 PM, jm said...: "dereva dereva tia moto"

pole sana. i hope u r okay. ipatie time na uta-realize mambo ni mos-mos tu ... i'd hate 2 see you sad ...
At April 25, 2007 11:21 AM, Chatterly said...: @ Eddiie – when you remember, come back
@ Nakeel – will look forward to the goodies&yummies! Thanx
@ Mwangi – I am ok, getting better each day. Not sad anymore now, si that threesome offer yako is still on ama? LOL!!!
@ Té la mà maria – yo no puedo hablar español. Muchas gracias por mi visitar!
At April 25, 2007 2:50 PM, BrokenStreetLight said...: welcome yo heartbreak hotel: deds: what goes around!
At April 26, 2007 3:25 PM, Archer said...: Woi poor Chatterly! Pole sana.

It seema I'm one of the very few KBWers who doesn't know how the bilaz train looks like inside. Outsourcing is the way forward!!!
At April 27, 2007 3:28 AM, jm said...: @ Chatterly: Nione kando ... i got news :) hehe, i am glad u r doing okay ... stay strong!!
At April 27, 2007 10:16 AM, Chatterly said...: @felix - thanx, my suite at the heartbreak hotel is superb!
@Archer - i outsourced and it backfired. i think the train is ok...for a while.
@mwangi - the news had better be superb ;-) LOL!
At May 07, 2007 6:08 PM, modoathii said...: Eish, kuna vile ninakufeel. ndio nikae kwa hii train nilitoka ride kama yako...puncture here, puncture there, nikajipata kwa stesheni nikingoja train tena...i'm now over here at the dining car nikiziteremsha niaje...

pole madam! lakini hii rollercoaster...yani ilitemaa manzi ka wewe...unajua espanyol ama ni lugha gani hiyo unanego na te la maria?
At May 10, 2007 11:01 AM, Milonare said...: Assi?
Wachana na that Bilas Train of Aco and Nick. I operate a megarider which allows me to board and leave at short notice... Gladly I havent had to use it in a while LOL
Lakini I hope you's good my dear...
At January 26, 2009 11:55 PM, Liz Moss said...: Oh dear, I feel for you! I'm very sorry!
but don't say you've been too nice, being nice is a GOOD quality to have!! and if he didn't see it or appreciate it enough, than His Loss!

you prob deserve sooo much better!

I once gave my all to one guy, and after 4 years I realized he didn't appreciate it, or give anything back to me. Even though I broke up, it broke my heart that I gave myself to someone who couldn't care less!
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