Taking it day by day: Desperate measures



Desperate measures

There has been a documentary on BBC about a 37 year old girl/lady/spinster/woman who is single and very keen on getting married. We all know, if you don’t go out to meet people, you will not meet mr right. So the girl sets out to find her prince charming. In the beginning she had this long list of somewhat twisted things she expected from her husband-to-be. Mark you she was not just looking for a boyfriend, she was looking for a man to marry. When you are selling beans, let the whole world know – by advertising; and advertising she did.

First thing was to hook up with as many men as she could. In 70 days she had gone out with 55 men. Wasn’t that exhausting? Going almost every night – drinking partying movies dinner etc. Goodness! Don’t you get tired of the dates? Each night with another dude? Energetic woman. According to her friend, a *dating expert* a girl meets (not just give the eye etc-seriously meeting, go out on a date etc) an average of 480 men before finding the one man whose right for her. I must say i was astounded. Those of you out there who are married/in relationships...did you go out with that many men till you eventually found HIM? i think not.

One time she went to a wedding dress store to try on some dresses, was photographed in one of them and had this gigantic poster made out of that pic! Then she hired a lorry stuck her poster on it and went around town in the lorry to recruit marriageables! I must say I was amazed; how desperate are you to put yourself through all that?! She even asked a stranger on the street what he thinks about it – the dude said (out of courtesy I suppose) “oh, it’s a brilliant idea (the expression on his face said something else though!), but it is a little bit too way over the top – for me”. Poor dude.

That was just one of the few weird things she did in her quest to conquer mr husband. Sad thing is, she did not get a man to marry her at the end of it all – though there were 3-4 suitable partners that she was going to consider dating one of them seriously. One of them even told her that whatever she is doing is not so magnificent – going out each and every other night with different men. How would she feel if she had the hots for a guy and she was number three on his list of women he was seeing? Chick had no answer.
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20 Comments:

At February 07, 2007 8:19 PM, Blogger Acolyte said...

That lady is truly desperate! She pulled out all the stops and in the process made things even worse! That is one thing women need to know, being desparate to get a significant other makes things harder because desperation chases away the good men and only attracts those who want to get a free ride.
Good things come to those who wait! And on the other hand, who needs a man anyway?!

 
At February 07, 2007 10:42 PM, Blogger Princess said...

One of my co-workers meets dudes on myspace and Craigslist and goes on dates with them and sleeps with them with no qualms. In her case, she is not trying to meet anyone..I don't get it but I suppose it isn't for me to get.

 
At February 08, 2007 5:50 AM, Blogger Acolyte said...

@ princess
Can I have your co-worker's email address and myspace page please? Thanks!

 
At February 08, 2007 9:48 AM, Blogger Chatterly said...

@Acolyte-what you said is true,if a chick acts alll desperate it just makes things worse.Dudes will even shangaa eish haraka ni ya nini? Yes, good things come to those who wait for sure-Lord knows i have waited and waited. Ati who needs a man? maybe you don't Aco, but me...I want!

@Princess-some things were not meant for everyone. That is how people get to meet dudes called Butcher Joe.

 
At February 09, 2007 11:35 AM, Blogger Klara said...

Heh! This is interesting! Is it true lakini??
Why all da trouble

 
At February 10, 2007 4:25 PM, Blogger bantutu said...

Aha!! It all comes back to 1 basic question..."Excuse me miss...Are you Kenyan?"Meeen that m-chiack has pawa...55/70...whrrrrrh That is: almost a man-every single mother to the father day!! Waaah! NOMA!!! ENERRGIE!!Alafu awe aliwanga anawafanyia ma-testing..complete...WEWE!! Strength!!
@Aco: eiii jamaa you move faster than NIC hihi!!

 
At February 13, 2007 7:17 AM, Blogger akiey5 said...

That's a real determined or utterly clueless chick to want to speed date and hope to pick a life partner. Folks are very good at pretending especially when they notice you need them more than they need you.

Well, to each is/her own I guess.

 
At February 13, 2007 4:07 PM, Blogger Girl in the Meadow said...

What! Thats not desperate, it is STUPID! where might she have been when its time to get husbands (read 20's) he he he

Looolll

 
At February 13, 2007 10:53 PM, Blogger Chatterly said...

@klara-it is so true, i think she just woke up one morning and heard her tick-tock ticking away :-)
@bantutu-same thing i was thinkin, chick must be having lots of energy-we don't know what happened when they were not shooting so...
@akiey5-thanks for stopping by! that chick is simply daft, just as shiro said.
@Shiro-you are so right...plain dumb ass chick. i think she was busy partying/blacking out/heading the "we don't need men in our lives" movement!

 
At February 14, 2007 5:42 AM, Blogger Seasons & Reasons said...

Cats dont eat dead mice!!! Thats all I will say about that.

 
At February 14, 2007 9:25 AM, Blogger Chatterly said...

@no rhyme, a dude told me "pia maji machafu huzima moto...so i bet chick still has a chance, even if it's slim

 
At February 14, 2007 11:40 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Desperation leads one to do strange things. Networking i believe may get you better results. Meet people in your friends' circles. Anywho, what do i know, the instutution holds no fascination for me.

Princess, that pal of yours, aiyayaya. One day atakipata.

 
At February 15, 2007 7:54 AM, Blogger Unyc said...

Insane Check.
desperate check.
Timewasted check.
Moneywasted check.
Men-disgusted check.

Hell no...wacha i die a loner...

 
At February 15, 2007 2:17 PM, Blogger Iwaya said...

there's nothing wrong with this, THIS PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS!

okay, i was kidding back there and just wanted a chance to use the title of the Will Smith movie i'm smacking my lips in anticipation of, waiting to watch.

you never did tell us the outrageous demands or is it attributes she expects in her soon to be husband. i always recommend a blog www.eternalbachelor.blogspot.com to those puzzled when someone does something like this back in the west.

 
At February 15, 2007 2:20 PM, Blogger Iwaya said...

there's nothing wrong with this, THIS PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS!

okay, i was kidding back there and just wanted a chance to use the title of the Will Smith movie i'm smacking my lips in anticipation of, waiting to watch.

you never did tell us the outrageous demands or is it attributes she expects in her soon to be husband. i always recommend a blog www.eternalbachelor.blogspot.com to those puzzled when someone does something like this back in the west.

 
At February 15, 2007 2:27 PM, Blogger Iwaya said...

there's nothing wrong with this, THIS PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS!

okay, i was kidding back there and just wanted a chance to use the title of the Will Smith movie i'm smacking my lips in anticipation of, waiting to watch.

you never did tell us the outrageous demands or is it attributes she expects in her soon to be husband. i always recommend a blog www.eternalbachelor.blogspot.com to those puzzled when someone does something like this back in the west.

 
At February 15, 2007 9:10 PM, Blogger mama shady said...

ahah!this woman, i am thinking she is idle!where is she getting the money for her shenanigans!

 
At February 16, 2007 11:41 AM, Blogger Girl next door said...

If this woman was from Kenya or India, she'd save herself from all the trouble of meeting tons of guys by asking her family to find a husband for her. It works for some. I don't think anyone should be in a rush to get married.

 
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